Hi Sandy and Dj Ewrek hopefully the Central Coast can help me shed some light on this disagreement I have going with my fiance, and I know fellas and ladies I am not alone on this. So my fiance tells me a couple of day ago that now that we are going to get married we should not hide anything from each other. I was like true, what do you want to know?? He responded with I want all the passwords to your social media? I said NO. His response was WTF are hiding things or people from me? I said NO, first of all I am not giving you my passwords because love does not mean controlling or spying on another person. I know what people will say: “Sharing your passwords isn’t a big deal if you have nothing to hide”, but let me break it down real quick. A lot of insecurity I’ve witnessed had more to do with the insecure party than the objects of their suspicion. Some people have a compulsive need to control those around them or else those people are deemed “untrustworthy”. I’m not a deceptive person and I make a point of transparency, but there’s a point where my business becomes my own! For example, if my best friend is venting to me about her relationship, that’s not for anyone else’s amusement. If I’m texting my manager, that shouldn’t be a cause for suspicion. If I have a voice message from my mom, why does it need to be screened? So with all that said I am not giving him my password to my social media if he has any concerns he can ask and I will open them up for him to see. He is not happy with that… I can’t be the only one that feels this way, please tell me I am not alone. SO, BECAUSE WE ARE GETTING MARRIED DOES THAT MEAN I HAVE TO HAND OVER MY PASSWORDS? (send in your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
