I’ve been seeing and hooking up with this girl since November .We were never official though. She’s hinted multiple times that she wants me to be her boyfriend. I just never asked her… one because she is coming out of a long term relationship and same for me and we are not fully out of these relationships. She gave me the impression she wouldn’t hook up or look for affection from another guys & that she really liked me. Anyway, I found out she started sleeping with another guy. Last weekend they pretty much spent the whole weekend together while still trying to keep our relationship going. At one point I felt like she was being distant so when she wasn’t looking I checked her phone and found out she was hooking up with this other guy. I was devastated because I thought we were a thing! We did most couple things besides have the boyfriend/girlfriend title. I really feel cheated, she said she is sorry and really likes me and wants a relationship with me, but I never officially asked her to me my girlfriend because in my mind I thought we were already together. She felt lonely one night and she gave into temptation…because she thought I wasn’t committed and she said she was tired of waiting for me to make it official. I guess my question is, what should I do? Is this relationship tarnished? Did she cheat on me even though we never said we where a thing but did everything else couples do?? Did she have the right to go and get with someone else because apparently we weren’t “official” ? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
