My friend is married to his 2nd wife of 3 years whom is slowly convincing him to cut contact with friends and even some of his family. She isn’t confrontational at all but she’s constantly calling him every second when he’s not with her and won’t even go to sleep without him going to sleep at the same time. She has no trust obviously, constantly has to search his phone, talks down to everyone (she’s never worked because she comes from money), doesn’t have any manners. My boy and I have been friends for almost 20 years. We have had each others back and been through practically through everything, but now he is on a leash with this demon. I never really gave it much attention until they visited us and after about 3 days, my fiancee had hit the end of her rope with this girl. We all decide to go eat at a nice restaurant In SB (40min drive, 30 min wait, just to sit down at my friends favorite restaurant, to be told that she doesn’t want to eat here and they’re leaving to go back to my place). Well after my fiancee politely told her she was being bitchy, she got super mad. I guess my fiance figured she would stand up for my boy since I’ve been with my fiancee for 10 years and I’ve known him for around 20. So she has seen a lot of him. His wife has even told him publicly to not flirt with my fiancee (which he isn’t) and obviously has some major trust issues. She had a kid she had at 15, and after a couple months being with my boy she was pregnant, but I’m starting to think she did it on purposely since he’s overall a great guy and she wants to have a fortress around him. Is there anything that I can do to show him the light? His sisters and dad constantly remind him of her horrors and they don’t even want to be around her, but I think it may be justified. I thought it was all just dramatic nonsense until I witnessed it first hand… Do I Just let it be or Do I help him leave this demon? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
