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My wife and I have been married for about 4 years. The only major problem I have with her is that she does not like to work SHE admits that with easy. She doesn’t like to have a job and this makes me very angry because I work 50 hours a week trying to make a good life for us and she doesn’t help. The reason it is especially difficult is because we are having money problems right now and if she was earning even a few hundred dollars a week working anywhere that would be a big help getting our bills paid but she won’t get a job. Last year she wanted to be a massage therapist and I paid a few thousand dollars to send her to school for it. She has not earned back even half of that and has quit working on it. She worked at an upscale spa/salon where she would come home exhausted after working 4 hours and she quit because it was too hard, even though she was making almost $800 a week.
Our house is not the neatest and I cook dinner most of the time because her cooking sucks!!!! What she does all day I don’t know. She wants to have kids and “be a mom”, but I am afraid I will have to take care of the kids in addition to everything else with no help from her and also feel like having kids for her might be also a excuse to not get a job. I don’t believe in giving up but I am really starting to become angry and resentful toward her. Any discussion of this results in a one big argument her go to reply is “I have to clean up after you all the time!” (I admit I am sloppy around the house) but I work full time and pay the bills so it fair for her to clean up after both of us at home. Is this enough reason to leave somebody I love her and all that but this is a big issue and I don’t see her changing I want to have kids but not with somebody that won’t put in on this…Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
