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Situation 805: “Do I stay or do I go?”

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We have been together for 10 years and have 2 young boys, and the last 2  years, he has been complacent, and gives more attention and time to him golfing and his buddies. We are rarely physically intimate, and almost never emotionally intimate. I unintentionally found another person to lean on for emotional support, who is in a similar situation in his own relationship. I think I might be developing feelings for that person. I know he has feelings for me.  About a month ago, I got sick of pretending like I was fine and happy and I finally said something to him about it. I feel so unhappy all the time, and I know some of that is just me, and some of that is this relationship. I am giving serious consideration to ending it, but I want to make sure I’m doing it for the right reasons. I don’t want to end it, because I have feelings for another person. Since I have mentioned the issues my boyfriend has been great. I can tell he is trying really hard. It kind of surprised me, I really didn’t know he cared that much. However, every little thing he does to try and fix us is making me feel worse. Like I’m horrible for still feeling unhappy, even though he is doing all the right things. Did I wait too long to say anything, and my love for him has already died. Also, I just feel like I’m a different person than who I was at 20 people change and there feels to right??. Not sure where to go from here. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)

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