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Good morning Danger and Loui! I like listening to this segment everyday at work or sometimes while I’m dropping off my step kids off at school. So I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We don’t have any kids of our own yet but we do live together. His daughter is 5 and his son is 10 years old. We get his kids 3 days out of the week. His children are adorable and very well behaved. I have developed a bond with both of them and yes I know I am not their real mother. But I am there for them when ever we have them. I help them with their school projects, I take them out shopping and we do typical family activities.
Well here’s the issue. My boyfriend’s baby momma doesn’t like that her children are so close to me. I do understand it to a certain extent. I have heard the kids say things like “I wish you were my mom” or “I don’t want to go home. I wish I could stay here with you guys.” So naturally I could see why she’d be bothered. I don’t know if she thinks I tell her kids to say things like that or what, but I don’t. She’s a good mother but not a great baby momma if that makes any sense. She always has something bad to say when we drop them off. I’ve only conversated with her a handfull of times and she rather not communicate with me, she only talks to my boyfriend. I wish she could see I really just care for these kids and I want them to feel loved when they come over and I’m not trying to replace her. She will ALWAYS be their mom. Any tips or advice on how I can have a better relationship with the baby momma? (email your situation to listeners@957
