Situation 805: “My baby daddy said no one is going to want me.”

Good morning Danger and Loui. My situation is something I’ve been experiencing with my on again/ off again boyfriend. We’ve been together for 7 years and have 2 boys together. During the pandemic I realized he’s not the same person I fell in love with. He has changed over the years. He has been less affectionate with me and it just felt very routine-ish. We haven’t intimate in almost 9 months. He doesn’t show his love. He’s responsible as a dad and as the man of the house, but as a husband he just kinda stopped trying. He says we are older and things change. I want to be wowed, take on dates or just make me feel special.We’ve talked and I communicated all this to him. He said that if I’m not happy I can leave, but no one is going to want me or take me serious because I have kids. He says I’m being ridiculous. We still live together, but sleep in different bedrooms. I don’t know and I don’t care if he’s seeing someone else. I am over him and I want to fall in love and be loved! I’m still young 33 and I don’t why he is trying to kill my dream of being happy by telling me no one is going to want me. I want true love, but I will never put a man before my kids. We come as a package. I want to ask the guys out there listening. Is being in a relationship with someone with kids a turn off? Is my baby daddy right? This is my 1st time being single in a very long time and nervous about entering the dating world again. (email your situation to: