Hey guys I needed to get your opinion on something if you have a few minutes? So my brother’s girlfriend who is nice enough but refuses to listen to me when I told her not to throw him a surprise 30th birthday party. My brother is my best friend and if there’s one thing I know about him is that he hates surprise parties. He’s threatened every close friend and family member to never throw him one and made me vow to tell him if someone was. I told his girlfriend this and she’s insisting on throwing him a surprise party anyway. At this point I’m pretty sure she’s just doing it for herself because she likes to plan parties. I don’t want to get between him and his girlfriend but a vow is a vow and I feel like I have to tell him about it, why should he be mad at both of us? So what do you think I should do? Should I tell him or just let it happen and hope he finds out about it through someone else?
