Where do I begin with this well about 2 years back my then girlfriend (now wife) and I went to pre-marrital counseling…..At the counseling session we where told to be truthful with each other not to hide anything from each other I don’t really have anything to hide so no problem for me but that’s when I found out that she was talking to a guy at works in our department. Now from what she says they were just “Friends,” but “Friends” don’t sext each other and and try to set up secret meet ups…. Anyways long story short we went through counseling moved on and worked it all out (we got married) as for the “Other guy”he was transferred to another branch located in different city…done deal right???….. Nope Now that same guy is back to working in our department and I have this weird feeling they where text each other again , and guess what???? I was right out I found out when she was showing me something on her phone and I saw some new messages he’d recently sent to her! She says they’re only “Friends” but I don’t know if I should believe her. A part of me want’s to hit him up and tell him to leave us alone and the other part is saying to just “Throw in the towel” cuz I don’t wanna go through this again. What do you guys think? Should I stay with my girl or throw away our 6 1/2 year relationship?
“what should i do???? help”
-Jesse
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