Situation 805: “So, I ended up confessing to my best friend that I am gay & that I’ve had feelings for him…”

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So a couple of days ago, I got really drunk and apparently admitted to my best friend that I was gay and that I have a thing for him…. I don’t remember saying it at all, but I don’t remember much of that night also. He told me this when I woke up in the middle of the night, but we were both still kinda out of it. I wrote it down right away on my phone to make sure the conversation of him telling me actually happened and I didn’t imagine it. We have been best friends for about 10 years, but I’ve always tried to just keep the feelings for him down and keep the relationship platonic because I know he’s straight.

I tried to kinda bringing it up to him the morning after (asking him if we need to talk), but he just said “ Naw Man Just forget it “. Since then, he’s been acting normal (just a little bit off), but it’s has been in the back of my mind for the past couple of days, and it is probably on his too.

I don’t really know what to do at this point, so any advice is appreciated. Should I sit him down and have a conversation about what happened. I can tell him that I didn’t mean what I said and that I was just out of it/a different person that night. Or should I just let it go, and keep it in the past, mentioning nothing about it? I don’t want it to ruin our friendship?? (email your situation to: