Situation 805: “Parents, is this normal?”

I’m worried about my son and my wife tells me I’m overreacting overthinking. We’ve been married for 5 years and have a 3 year old son. My wife takes him on play dates with her sister’s kids. My son only has girl cousins on that side. Well everything he’s excited for and into is girl stuff. He even gets excited when he hears certain girly songs on the radio. I bought him boots, jeans and a cap, we we’re gonna be matching cowboys. We had planned a day out in ranch just the boys! My son & I and my 2 brothers and my nephew. He threw a fit because he apparently didn’t like wearing the boots or cap. His crying and screaming wasn’t worth it so he just wore his sneakers. While we were out there I told my brothers about little tendencies he has. They agreed it’s not good for him to be around girls all the time. He needs to learn to want to spend more time around the boys. I love him to death. As a parent I just don’t want him to be teased, called names when he gets older. Wife tells me he’s a kid, and if different things make him happy we should embrace it, it has nothing to do with sexual orientation. What do you guys think. Is it normal. Am I overreacting? It’s my 1st time being a dad help! Parents I want to hear from you.