Hi guys so I know I’m going to sound like a jerk and a lot of ladies are probably going to talk smack and what not but please read through the whole thing before you judge me. Okay, so me and my chick have been in together for 4 years, we’ve been engaged for 2 of those years. During that time we’ve been saving money to have our dream wedding. Well during those 2 years my chick has put on a lot of weight!! Almost 80 pounds! That’s a lot!! Honestly I’m not as attracted to her as I once was at the beginning. I feel like she thinks that since we are engaged she already has me!! I fell in love with her when she actually cared what she looked like! Looks are not everything because I also fell in love with her as a person, for her ambition, her values, her personality etc. I’ve tried to tell her, that I’m starting to double think this whole getting married thing because when we dated she did everything to try to keep impressing me and I would do the same, but as soon as we got engaged she started to care less and less. I’ve tried to motivate her to work out with me or encourage her in soooo many ways. She doesn’t have any medical issues, or legit excuses to not work out. She’s not attempting to make any progress. My question is would I be wrong for cancelling the wedding or just leaving?
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