HI Sandy and DJ Ewrek! So I’m in a rather uncomfortable situation and I don’t have a clue how to handle it at all! It
concerns my girlfriend’s mother. She’s what I can only describe as a little to touchy. I don’t know any other way of
describing her behavior. When I first started seeing my girlfriend, nearly four years ago now, her behavior was
normal. The first time I met my girlfriends mother she said I was gorgeous and “well done” to me. I took it as an innocent joke.
As time went on, it became clear that her mother had an attraction to me, even a few times my girlfriend would say “dang my mom likes
you more then I do I am gona keep my eye on you”. There’s been time when her mom sits super close to me and even
her hugs have become longer than necessary. A couple of weeks ago, my girlfriend’s mother came to stay with us for
the weekend. My girlfriend went to the movies in the afternoon to see a movie that I didn’t want to see, so I stayed home.
At this point I was alone with her mother. I had no reason to be uncomfortable about this, it’s whatever… or so I thought!! When
my girlfriend left, her mother said that she was going to shower and I continued to work on my laptop.
When my girlfriend’s mother came out of bathroom she was wearing a bath robe, just walking around the house… still no reason
to be uneasy, right? Well then she says “I can show you a thing or two if you wanna come in here”, as she made
her way to the guest room. At that point I totally freaked out, closed my laptop, and I was out of there!! I text my girl to let me
know when she was coming home that I went out to hang with my boy. My girlfriend came home, not soon enough, and I
felt very uncomfortable. My girlfriend could tell something was wrong, but I just said that I was a bit overworked. I’m
not sure if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened & how she makes me feel uncomfortable as it would probably destroy
the relationship between mother and daughter. I’m approaching breaking point. Should I tell her and if so, how do I do this with
out making into a big mess?
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