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Heyyyyy Sandy Danger and Dj Ewrek hope all is well with you both love listening to to situation 8-0-5, and I decided to send one in so here goes nothing.I’ve never been away from home for more than 1 month (for an internship). I love my parents- they’re very supportive, always want the best for me, offer to help me in any way they can. I’m so grateful and lucky to have them.
However, they’re very traditional Latino parents and getting in to there older age they are both 70+. When I go out, I have to tell them with who, where, what we’re doing, etc. I’ve gotten used to it, but lately I’ve realized it’s a very controlling dynamic, especially me being 25. Granted, I live under their roof and I understand “my house, my rules.” I have a B.S. in Biology, currently have a full-time job making decent money. I also recently just started going to school to take 1 class I need to apply to med school. I have money saved up to move out on my own soon and start my adult life in another city when I go to Med school…… I don’t know if my parent are gonna like the idea of me moving away one because they are very dependent of me to help around the house read they’re mail (translate if you have Latino parents you know what I mean) I feel bad and also feel stuck here because I feel the responsibility to stay here to take care of my parents…. my question is do I put my dreams and goals on hold to continue to be there for my parents or should I live my life? I feel guilty leaving them, but I also feel like I will regret it if I don’t follow my dreams. I’m torn. If you’ve been in a similar situation, do you have any input? How you handled it, and how everything turned out, etc.? Thanks so much for any feedback/advice. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
