What up guys, So My gf wears too much makeup. Whenever we cuddle or hangout or play around, I always get a makeup smeared all over my hands, face or shirt. I can’t kiss her without my lips turning coral or purple. I can’t hug her without getting peachish smears on my shirts. Even when I touch her cheek, neck, etc I rub off bronzer/blush/highlighter/powder. Of course I tell her I love her most when she’s without makeup and she seems to believe me.
When we first started dating, she would wear only a normal amount of makeup but now she’s progressed to the point of spending at least an hour + half before going out And literally it would be to go to a dunkin donuts drive thru and nobody is going to see her. She’ll throw on fake eyelashes for the grocery store or seeing my old parents.
I used to think she was gorgeous and don’t get me wrong I still do but now I’m feeling like she looks a little….fake. her perfectly bronzed cheeks almost look plastic and her eyes look like a bratz doll. Honestly, I think she looks a little silly and even a little clown-like but I know I’m not used to seeing all this makeup. Maybe it’s just my preference—I appreciated the more natural looks I can barely reconize her after she takes off her makeup. She looks hot of course but not something I think is appropriate every single day.
My question is, what can I do to help my gf gradually go back to how she looked? I think she was happier back then—she had more free time and didn’t spend so much time caring how she looked. nowadays if she isn’t applying makeup, she’s shopping, reading reviews, scrolling, taking hundreds of selfies and editing them, etc. it seems like she spends all day thinking, breathing and applying makeup.
So I was wondering maybe somebody could help me understand why that much makeup is so important on a daily basis??? would it be rude of me to tell her to stop wearing so much make up??? plus I am getting tired of her getting make up all over my shirts!!!