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Hey guys! Let me start out by saying that I was hesitating to send this in, but I did it any way because I really want a non bias opinion and advice. I’m 20 years old and a hopeless romantic……. I try to keep that side of myself hidden from my friends and family along with many other things from my personality, and I am not gonna lie it makes it difficult for me to date because nobody really sees me for the person I really am inside, just my appearance. Well long story short, I’ve met a man who sees me for who I am without me even saying a word. I instantly fell for him, and he’s fallen for me too. The only issue is our age difference he’s 34 and I am 20. He doesn’t think it’s a big deal, and, like him, I also sort of believe that age is just a number. But there are certain things that still stay in my mind, the first whether or not my family would except this…. both of my parents are 38, that’s only a 4 year difference from the guy I am falling for. I also have the same feeling toward my friends. My best friend already told me, “You better not date that grandpa or I’ll never speak to you.” I know she was just being dramatic/joking, but it still bothered me, and made me feel a little disgusted with myself. He’s old enough to go to bars or clubs and I can’t do any of those things yet. But I’ve always been told I’m very mature for my age and that I’d end up with an older man. But a 14-year age difference seems to be very controversial. Even though we are both kind of rebels, for the first time, I find myself asking: are people right about the big age difference in our relationship???? They say they don’t work. So I could use an opinion, some advice or any wisdom. Anything you feel might help me make this decision would be SO appreciated. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
