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Situation 805: “I am considering leaving my abusive boyfriend of 10yrs but he’s all I know, and I don’t know how to be on my own”

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Hey Sandy Danger and DJ Ewrek  I will try to make this short as possible I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs. In the past he has done things I consider cheating, he likes to lie, deny and always tries to shift the blame on me for anything. He’s is getting better now but continues to do things I consider controlling and possibly even abusive. I finally told myself I want out. Even showing any kind of affection has become hard. Problem is after being so controlled by him having 2 kids and focusing on him, and his career for so many years, I’m extremely lacking of any skills or resources I’d need to be able to get by on my own. Including normal common knowledge most adults have……to be real I am scared of being alone since my entire adult life so far has been with him and I can’t really see getting into another relationship ever given how much I’ve let myself go. Do I try to take charge of the relationship and do what I need to do to better myself while still in it before I leave him? Or Do I leave him and deal with the fact that I have along road ahead of me before I get better? I really don’t have friends or a support system of any kind. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)

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