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Situation 805: “My girlfriend and I can’t even eat dinner together because…”

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Good morning guys! So here goes. My girlfriend is a very picky eater. She doesn’t like most foods. She doesn’t like sea food, she doesn’t  like any kind of ethnic foods. Sandwiches and cereal and junk food are probably the only things I see her eat the most. So you guessed it, she doesn’t cook either. Well we just moved in together. We’ve been living together for almost a month and we are already have problems. I’m Mexican and I love to eat. I love food with a lot of heat and flavor. When it come time to eating we rarely eat together at the table, it’s kinda sad. She says she hates the way my food smells and can’t stand it. She even throws away plates of leftovers that we have in the fridge, that my sisters or mom cook for me. It’s ridiculous. My family came over the other day for dinner. She stayed in the room the whole time my family was there eating. She over hear my mom and sisters criticize her.  Like she doesn’t even try to make an effort to learn to cook. I’m not expecting a home cooked meal every night although that would be ideal, but come on!! My fear is that what if we decide to have children, is she not going to cook for them or is she going to push her bad eating habits on them? I never thought I would be in a relationship where the food is the biggest issue. I’m not even overreacting, it’s almost an everyday argument. I am starting to rethink me being with her. Where’s the middle ground? Is this something that can be resolved? What am I supposed to do to solve this and get passed it to make our relationship work? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)

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