Situation 805: “I’m 24 and I’ve never had a boyfriend”

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Good morning everyone, hope everyone listening is doing so I’m 24 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I moved to the Central Coast when I turned 19 and started college at Cal Poly. I moved away from Fresno to have a fresh start. I’ve been for 5 years and I’ve made some great friends. Well all my friends think it’s weird I haven’t brought anyone around. My roommate introduced me to some guy she knows and all my friends are now kinda pressuring me to give him a chance since he’s a catch according to them. So I went out with him on 2 different occasions and I realized he’s kind of a loser. He suggested we split the bill on both “dates” I had to go pick him up since he doesn’t have a car. He talked about himself the whole time and how he could make me fall in love with him and how great he was in bed. I was so turned off he 2nd time we went out. I reported back to my friends and they said I need to stop being so pick and sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince. His good looks don’t matter when your maturity level is that of a 17 year old. Most girls my age I know, jump from boyfriend to boyfriend. I don’t know if they just don’t know how to be alone or what but most of the guys they date are losers too. It seems like it’s inevitable. I was brought up to have high expectations, my friends call it picky. Is there something wrong with me? Am I doing it wrong? Does any one have dating tips for a 1st timer? I appreciate all the advice. Thanks. (email your situation to: