I don’t know what to do. Should I just stay quiet or should I speak up and say something now. My husband’s family came from Arizona to spend Thanksgiving with us. This was the 1st time they’ve visited. His 2 brothers with their wives and their kids, and his parents came. We were having an awesome time. Well my brother in law got a little tipsy while we were talking, and he told me that when my husband was in high school he had gotten a girl pregnant she ended up moving to another state and he didn’t know if they gave it up for adoption, had an abortion or if the girl kept it and he just gave up custody. (that was 5 years before we we met) My husband and I have been married for 12 years and he has never mentioned anything to me. The next day I spoke to my brother in law and he felt bad, he apologized he thought I already knew, he ended up telling me since it wasn’t his place to say anything. He regretted telling me because he doesn’t want us to have problems. It’s hard to imagine that my husband has a daughter or son out there somewhere. I’ve never doubted my husband or caught him doing anything shady. We’ve shared everything! or so I thought! What if there’s other things he’s been keeping from me? I can either ignore it and keep living our lives, or I can bring it up and possibly open up something I’m not ready for… what would you do? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
