Sup Danger & Loui! I’m not a fan of “if you loved me you’d” do whatever the hell someone wants you to do. Like, here’s my situation. My girlfriend totaled her Jeep, and needs a new car. Here’s the problem, though, she can’t afford it – BUT – she knows I have a 401K that’s done well, so she thinks dipping into it for her new car should be a no-brainer. For me, this is something that only someone with “no brains” would do, and it’s my money that I worked for. Not her automotive slush fund. You can probably tell I have a real issue with this, and my point isn’t getting through by me taking the “polite” route. Any tips to head this one off before I explode? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)