My BF and I have been together for a little over two years and have lived together for a year. He’s a great guy, but I’ve known for a while that he’s not “the one” and now it seems pretty certain that we’re heading for a breakup soon. We’ve both been talking more about future plans that don’t involve each other, but we haven’t had a direct conversation about breaking up. I want to make this split as civil as possible and avoid any drama. How can I make this breakup go smoothly and head off any conflicts before they start? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)



