Hey guys, good morning! So long story short I have been married to my husband for 33 years! We didn’t have any children and our marriage has been pretty perfect up till now. So when my husband and I got together he was in a tough place in life. He had issues with addiction and I stayed with him regardless. Together in the during the good the bad, in sickness and in health. We tried for children many years ago and unfortunately had a miscarriage. My husband then told me he didn’t want to try for kids any more. (He wasn’t in a good place). I was very heart broken when he told me he didn’t want children after all. It was always my dream to become a mother and he knows this. I agreed because I was in love with him and it was one of the conditions I had to accept if I wanted to be with him. Well 33 went by and our marriage has been great, my husband has been the best. But to be honest I have always felt a sense of emptiness. Well, a few days ago my husband approached me with something I am completely against. We got into a very ugly argument. My husband’s sister is a lesbian and her and her partner want to have a child. They asked my husband if he would be willing to donate little swimmers to his sister’s partner. He came home and told me about it. He told me he’s considering it. My whole life I wanted to be a mother and he told me he didn’t want children, and now this? I don’t find it fair that another woman can have my husbands baby. Even if he were to give up all parental rights, I’m going to know that’s his child! How am I supposed to feel knowing having children is past my time? I am almost 50. I told him I am not okay with this and he said I am being selfish. I even brought up the D word (divorce) Help!! I haven’t slept or felt like myself. Who’s in the right? (email your situation to listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
