Hey guys and good morning I’m emailing you this morning a question about my girlfriend in hopes one of you or someone listening can give me some perspective. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and the last 6 months have been very routine. We don’t do much every time I try to suggest something she just says she wants to stay in and that’s it. I feel like even sex is very routine and we only have it if we’ve been drinking. I’ve asked her many times of the years if she’d like to go to the gym with me to work out together (not that she needs too) and she always says “No I hate to workout”. Well a few weeks ago she told me she was joining a gym but not the one I go to and she started eating better. When I asked her why she didn’t want to work out with me she said she wanted to do it on her own. My friends are warning me that she’s getting ready to break up with me and will do so when she gets back into great shape. They also warned me that when she cuts her hair and changes the color we have about another week before she breaks up with me. Is any of this true or am I just being paranoid?
