My BF and I have been together for three years. During that time, I’ve been in school studying to be an architect. I was offered a job in a prestigious architectural firm that’s an hour away and it’s the perfect opportunity. They’re willing to let me work remotely sometimes and part-time until I graduate and are even offering to pay for me to get my master’s degree. My BF is furious that I’d consider taking a job that far away and he’s making me choose between him and the job. I think it’s ridiculous that he would force my hand like this and sadly, I’ll have to choose my career. Should I just go ahead and break it off with him or try and explain that I would rather have the job and keep our relationship?
