So here’s the deal, I got to know this chick through a friend. My friend and I moved into this rented place together and she would frequently come over cook and hang out with my friend. We’re not best friends or anything and I am kinda anti-social but this girl has been including me in most things. She would always comes through with food, my this chick would invite me to go movies with them and basically we would hang out as a group.
The both of them have only been dating for about 3+ months but I can tell that they are both getting along very well. My friend is crazy about her and she is really an awesome girl. She is very child-like, kind, caring and funny which I find really attractive maybe because it’s the complete opposite of myself. She can be exciting and she’s very fun to be around. The thing is lately I am starting to develop feelings for her. She is very open and always makes herself at home when she visits so she dresses in small shorts and stuff like that. I can’t stop thinking about her in a sexual way. I like her more than I should and I feel jealous.
Whenever they are hooking up, I can hear them (our walls are paper thin) and I lock myself in my room, put on my headphones and crank up music or game to try to drown out everything but I still can’t help feeling what I feel. Is there anything I can do to stop falling for her?
Would it be inconsiderate for me to tell my friend/her how I feel? She is naturally very friendly with people so I’m not sure if I’m reading too much into it, but is it possible that she likes me too?
We are supposed to go to the movies this weekend, but I’m starting to feel too jealous to be around them yet I yearn to spend time with her even if her boyfriend is there. Is it possible that the feelings are mutual, or am I just being hopeful?
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