I am hoping the Central Coast can help me with what to do here. I am 18 and last week I caught my mom having sex with
someone who is not my dad. My parents have been married for like 20 years and this was the biggest shock ever in my
life. My dad works late and he’s on the road a lot. So that day I happen to come home early from a night out with my friends.
They were in the living room, and I saw the guy jump up and quickly put his clothes on when he saw me. My mom was
embarrassed obviously and tried to explain it, but later that night she told me she made a mistake and to please not
tell my dad. I feel like I am closer to my mom, she has always been there for me no matter what was going on in my life.
I will be honest with you, my dad and I are not super close, well actually not close at all! He kinda
disowned me since I came out the closet. Yes I am his only son. He went as far saying he will never accept it either. I am
really feeling like it’s wrong for me not to say something to my dad. All though we don’t see eye to eye I feel obligated to speak up.
I just feel bad for him not knowing. He has no idea of what’s going on. I feel my mom should be the one to tell him not me, but if she doesn’t is that my place to say something? My mom has begged me not to say anything to him and she promises it will never happen again. I don’t know if to believe that though… my mom and dad have always seemed happy together. I don’t know how to move past it.
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