So I have been dating this guy for a few months. We are both in our mid 30’s. He has a 19 year old son from a previous relationship. So the issue here is his son, he is addicted to drugs. He’s been in rehab a few times. He’s been arrested and gone to jail for stealing. Stealing from his own family!! My boyfriend has really tried to help him out and I see him getting more and more frustrated any time anything happens with his son. He’s even gone as far to say “I don’t even care any more, he ruined my life for 5 years while I tried to save him. He’s selfish and doesn’t want to change so I’m done. I’m not going to let him ruin my life any more. I’m sad to say it but my son is a loser.” I keep encouraging him to not give up on his son. When were with his family and his family members ask him about his son he avoids talking about it. His son is in need of help and I honestly feel guilty whenever we are out having fun, because in the back of my mind I’m like how is he enjoying himself knowing his son not doing good. We’ve had numerous convos about this and he says I can’t relate because I don’t have children of my own yet. I really like this guy but if he seems to have no sympathy for his own son who is his blood, what can I expect if we one day have children or even myself. Central Coast can you tell my how can someone give up on their own blood? He keeps telling me I can’t relate and not to worry about it because it’s not my problem. How can I take him serious? (email your situation: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
