Well, here goes my question that I want to submit. So I’ve been dating a girl for about a month, we are 2 dates in and just arranged a 3rd one. There is a thing I’m worrying about. The problem is that I am divorced and have a 2 sons who lives with there mom. I care for both of them as much as I can.I always try to tell this information to people I’m seeing before I meet them or on the first date. I did try to do this in this case. I did however tell her that I have been married. After that there happened to be a bit of awkward silence and an uncomfortable moment … and at that moment I hesitated and decided to not to continue this subject for now, cause I was worried that it could be “too much”. However I really like that girl … but I still have to tell her about my sons! Third date would be last moment to do this in my opinion, and I always value honesty … However now I’m thinking on how to do this best. It should not be a big deal … but because of the akward silence on the first date it is a bit more difficult now to just come out and say it… So I need your opinion on how to do this? I am trying to deliver this info to her as easy as possible. How do I do it with out overwhelming her, because it’s something she needs to know? (email your situation: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
