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Hello Sandy Danger and DJ Ewrek here is my situation: When my fiance and I discussed getting married I told him multiple times I don’t need a formal proposal or a ring if he doesn’t want to get me one. If the man I love couldn’t afford a ring or was against giving one for whatever reason I would be fine with that. I’m not one of those women who wants a huge rock if he did give me a ring. It doesn’t even have to be a diamond. It could be a ring from a gumball machine as long I was marrying the man I love.
My boyfriend recently proposed with a ring (rose gold, tanzanite stones, no diamond). I did like the ring, it was even engraved on the inside. Later on when his family saw the ring, I found out it was the one he had given to his deceased wife when he proposed to her. She wore it for their entire engagement and marriage until she passed away a few years back. I wanted to cry. Like I said I would be happy with a ring even if it was second hand (like from Craigslist or a pawn shop) and not new and no matter what it looked like. I would also happily get married without a ring. So I don’t understand why he gave me THIS ring! The engraving on the band was not even meant for me. He doesn’t understand why I am upset and says I am being ‘over dramatic’ and ‘shallow’. He says the “engraving applies to you and since I already had the ring with the engraving it didn’t make sense for me to get another one even though I could afford to”. He is upset because I don’t want to wear it and we’ve fought. Should I just shut up and be grateful? Am I wrong for being upset? (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
