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I’ve been together with my girlfriend for about 5 years, and I know 100% she is the one, not gonna lie I feel like we both found the right person. We currently live with her parents. I am currently pursuing a culinary degree and I have a really ambitious dream, I want to become the best chef I can be. I want to learn as much as I can, work at many different places in many different countries. I love cooking and everything to do with it, this is my passion. The thing with a career like that tho is the working hours, Im gonna have to work a lot to get where I want to get to. I’m talking about working 6 days a week, not being home till very late, things like that, and I told my Girl since Day one what my dreams where. But as we get older and our relationship gets more serious we discuss the future, getting married, settling, children. Like she says that she wants to get married before she hits 28 we are both 25 now, and she also says children are gonna come soon after that. But in 3 years I’m not gonna be done with learning, traveling and working a lot, which means I won’t see my children that much, or my to be wife, and the children are gonna have to move a lot as well. The other day she got really upset, and cried, talking about how she imagined her future, having children, husband that works a Mon-Fri 9-5, and imagining every night laying with her husband in bed watching TV. I told her that I will quit this dream, and she was like yeah let’s find something else that will keep you closer to me and our family in the future, but when I think about it, if I stop my cooking study and future career, I’ll just feel so defeated. I am at the cross roads. I have spent 5 wonderful years with her love her to death would do anything for her but give my dream??? What do I do… leave the relationship and keep pushing for my dream and passion or do something else to stay close to her? (Email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com
