Hey guys I’m a long time listener of the show and really respect your opinion on relationship stuff so I’m hoping you can help me out this morning. I’m getting serious with a woman right now, she’s 22 and I’m 27 so I have a few years on her but she’s amazing. Very bubbly and flirtatious which I like but there’s one thing she’s doing that is making me feel a little uncomfortable. When we go out for drinks, which is about three times a week, she likes to see if she can get a free drink from a guy at the bar or the bartender, she’s even brought me a few of her free drinks. At first I thought it was cool but now I don’t want her flirting with other men, I’d rather just pay for the drinks. Do you think she’ll get mad and think I’m possessive if I tell her that or she’ll be happy I don’t want her to flirt with other men? Is this a dating red flag that she likes to flirt and get free drinks?
