Hi guys! I’ve been listening to this station since I could remember! So I met my fiance in 2020 during the beginning of the pandemic. I was living with 2 roommates and one of them introduced me to his coworker at the time. We hit it off and lived a passionate first 2 years together. We ended up moving into our own place within 5 months of knowing each other and I proposed to her on our 1 year anniversary, I thought it was what I wanted. In April she had to temporarily move across the country for work. We talked everyday on the phone and we saw each other only 3 times in person since she moved. She came home for thanksgiving and we spent 9 days together while she was here. Honestly I don’t know what happened, but I don’t feel the same butterflies I used to feel around her. I don’t feel the attraction I once felt. FYI she hasn’t done anything wrong.. it’s me! The more time we spent together the more I realized I’m not in love with her. The last day she noticed I was really quiet and wasn’t being myself. She flew back over the weekend and I have been contemplating on if I am just confused or I’m not in love. I care for her and don’t want to hurt her, but how do you tell someone you proposed to that your feelings have changed and you don’t want to get married any more. HELP!! She’s moving back in January. (email your situation to: listeners@957thebeatfm.com)
